# Romance with a Room Mate. seems NOT? **URL:** \ **Category:** Bug Reports\ **Tags:** interaction, family\ **Created:** [February 14, 2026, 10:41am UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090 "2026-02-14T10:41:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2026, 10:41am UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/1 "2026-02-14T10:41:12Z")
I have a couple that refuses to start a Romance. They share the same house, and I think Inzoi regards them as a family member, even though they are NOT related. I used the ‘setRelationshipFull’ for Romance cheat. But this makes no difference? It was suggested for me to increase the Romance (mutual crush) on the slider control in the Relationships menu. But the sliders do not move? It seems you can start a romance with some other zoi you have met outside, but not with the person you already live with, even though not related? This really does annoy me with Inzoi. It was very easy to do this in Sims4, but not with Inzoi. Loads of couples that live in the same house do start a romance relationship. Why cant this happen in Inzoi? 5 Inzoi days and my couple are still cold towards each other? ---
**Author:** ![HeinziDerHeld](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/heinziderheld/32/4787_2.png) [@HeinziDerHeld](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/HeinziDerHeld)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2026, 4:00pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/2 "2026-02-14T16:00:42Z")
I moved your thread to the bug report section, because this clearly is one. It happened in my game back in April / May right after launch. I really thought this was a messed up system-bug that got fixed soon after. Thank you for reporting it 🙏 Even though I’ve read your post about removing inZOI from your computer, I still have to ask: Can you provide the affected save file? ---
**Author:** ![JoyIsFunner](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/joyisfunner/32/8276_2.png) [@JoyIsFunner](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/JoyIsFunner)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2026, 3:27am UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/3 "2026-02-16T03:27:02Z")
It’s their characteristics and traits, I forget which ones line up but I had to restart a new game with both zois traits set a specific way then I got them to romance and Marry. **Which this needs to be fixed because anyone can fall in love.** **This is stupid because this is the purpose of creating two zois that you want to play and have them realistically romance and eventually get Married .** ---
**Author:** ![jujunesu](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/jujunesu/32/68_2.png) [@jujunesu](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/jujunesu)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 6:36am UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/4 "2026-02-19T06:36:13Z")
Could also be their gender alignment. Zois won’t romantically fall for the sex that they’re not attracted to as someone already mentioned somewhere in the forum. ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 8:19am UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/5 "2026-02-19T08:19:52Z")
Yes, we solved it [in this thread](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10213/9), maybe then can be merged? ---
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 3:32pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/6 "2026-02-18T15:32:29Z")
> - **Game Version** : > > - **Platform** : (Steam windows / Steam Mac / Mac) > > - **Mods** : (Choose one: never used / removed / active) > 📍If you have used mods before, please list them: > > - **Hardware Specifications & Operating System** (OS version, CPU, GPU, RAM, storage…): > > - **Steps to Reproduce:** - **Please provide the entire save file(s) from the date when the issue occurred.** 📍 Instruction: [How to Send User Files to The inZOI Team (Updated)](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/how-to-send-user-files-to-the-inzoi-team-updated/57) - **Details:** 📍 Please share the date, error message, or screenshots/videos for issue verification. Steam Windows PC. Mods De Activated. Windows 11 desktop PC. i9-11900K, Nvidia GeForce RTX3090 24GB, 64GB Ram, 4TB NVMe SSDs. Moved two teenagers into a house. They are extremely friendly and fond of each other. However, 2 -3 weeks of Inzoi weeks, they are still unable to start a romance. The romance love options are not available? The cheat ‘setRelationshipFull’ - ‘Romance’ set for both zois. Both personalities are set for Romance, and set for ‘Looking for Romance’. As you can see with the screenshots, the ‘Romance’ option does not include the ‘Love’ options. Also, the Relationship window, does not include the ‘Roommates’? WHY NOT? Is this a restriction that the game puts onto teenagers, or is it a bug? If NOT a bug, then how dare Inzoi not allow teenagers to fall in love. A REAL example, my Ukrainian mother was only 19 when she gave birth to me. Both were teenage lovers, and are still loving and faithful now. Despite this, I still like Inzoi. (don’t know why they are both showing as lethargic?} Not showing it? Thanks ![inZOI Screenshot 2026.02.18 - 12.50.12](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/a/a5c67f179efcdbf9dd139355c4d88b9919040545.jpeg) ![inZOI Screenshot 2026.02.18 - 12.41.40.32](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/9/9cc913eef2b2517271867873d29e0723b54bffe5.jpeg) ---
**Author:** ![treeofowl](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/treeofowl/32/10698_2.png) [@treeofowl](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/treeofowl)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 5:01pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/7 "2026-02-18T17:01:03Z")
I created two teens. At start there are these romantic options ![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/3/3a780b7e0728c152cbe99236b345b352a401f02b.jpeg) After a few conversations a relationship bar quickly began to fill up and more romantic options appeared. And Kumiko wants to confess love to her roommate. ![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/f/fa61054299ff8e4ecf2ef4a75c9090496046168f.jpeg) Now they are in bed ![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/8/8ab640b8724b5666bdc10eaa4b1c98b6b789d50e.jpeg) As you can see, only half an hour has passed in the game. Teen roommates have access to romance options. Does this issue reproduce on a new save file? ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 5:11pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/8 "2026-02-18T17:11:27Z")
Maybe it’s really their traits? Can you maybe post which traits they have and we try to find out if they keep them from dating? (Which would be really a bummer -.-) ![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/7/740f4dd92b84fbeb1fe75b17e55674fae5d51c0f.jpeg) ![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/e/e29997dab81793cd40f5f6f2a0f0dd2656e9e4f7.png) ---
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 7:28pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/9 "2026-02-18T19:28:23Z")
Both of their traits to Charmer and Romantic. So what more can I do? ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 7:31pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/10 "2026-02-18T19:31:30Z")
![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/a/a7a1a9fea04acf4dab151973ef90b794a663b356.png) Can you maybe send screenshots? Beacuse ‘Romantic’ is the ID for the ‘Charmer’ trait ---
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 7:52pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/11 "2026-02-18T19:52:27Z")
Here are the 2 traits. Im not going to give up on this. I will pester Krafton to give me some solution. If others can form a teenage romance,then why cant I ? Not right! ![inZOI Screenshot 2026.02.18 - 19.42.02.57](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/2/2ce8ebee16d6a103af2639d15a066db0e755d622.jpeg) ![inZOI Screenshot 2026.02.18 - 19.41.02.13](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/original/2X/b/b76c08ea2fac16bfa687bf3cd919f94b23e398a3.jpeg) ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:03pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/12 "2026-02-18T20:03:45Z")
Oh, both are male but one of them is attracted to female the other to male. You can change that in CAZ ---
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:20pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/13 "2026-02-18T20:20:07Z")
Sorry I forgot. What is CAZ? ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:23pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/14 "2026-02-18T20:23:46Z")
The Create a Zoi mode where you can change your Zois clothes and such. Just click on your Zoi - Change Clothes - Style Yourself On the left side are the gender options ---
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:25pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/15 "2026-02-18T20:25:37Z")
OK, can you suggest what gender options to change? I have the Inzoi game open as weell. ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:27pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/16 "2026-02-18T20:27:39Z")
Jamie should be attracted to male, because Nicky is male. ---
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:44pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/17 "2026-02-18T20:44:20Z")
jamie WAS at the start attacted to male. I think this must have changed in last update. Now at long last, they are in love. Some real relationships can take some time. In future I will check this after each update. Thank you for your help. I think I may love you!? All the best and take care. Thanks for other replies too. ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:47pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/18 "2026-02-18T20:47:53Z")
Awesome! Yes I’ve had that too that it changed and I always have an eye on it. So glad it finally worked out with these two and they can be together now! 💞 ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 8:49pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/19 "2026-02-18T20:49:27Z")
And tomorrow we are going to tackle the Cahaya shoe issue! 👟 hahaha ---
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2026, 9:11pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/20 "2026-02-18T21:11:30Z")
Thanks. The Cahaya shoe issue is now resolved. Sorry to bring politics up. I am Bi and in Ukraine the country has gained a lot of freedom and tolerance and sexual tolerance. Which is what the people want. But Putin very strongly objects to that, and wants to control people. There is some tolerance to sexuality in Russia, but very little. So many Russian Bi’s and Gays have moved to Ukraine, and Putin would like to eliminate them. That is fact! [Next page](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090.md?page=2)