# Starting a Romance problem **URL:** \ **Category:** Q&A\ **Tags:** relationship\ **Created:** [February 16, 2026, 2:35pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10162 "2026-02-16T14:35:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rickie](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/rickie/32/10467_2.png) [@Rickie](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/Rickie)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2026, 2:35pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10162/1 "2026-02-16T14:35:55Z")
I know that I said I was going to leave Inzoi, but after playing Sims 4 for a few days, I missed Inzoi. So I am back. The problems I had was related to the last major update, and I lost my saved building. Upon just coming back today, the house I created was back in the property presets! Disappearing house and then re-appearing, is very strange. That is a relief! However, the same old problem connected with Romance is still here. Two late teenagers NOT related with different names, moved into a house together. So they are house mates. But nothing I can do can get the couple to fall in love? A total of 10 inzoi days and they are still cold towards each other. I tried this in Sims 4 and and you can start a romance instantly. To me, this is a serious gameplay bug, and needs to be fixed. Also NO shoes allowed in Cahaya? Only sandals! So at a formal event like a wedding or funeral, you have to wear sandals? I have sent Krafton Inzoi support about these bugs. Some people have sent me messages in Ukrainian, but my main language is English. My mother was Ukrainian, and I only know a little Ukrainian. First names Richard Ivan (Rick or Rickie) All the best to all. ---
**Author:** ![LennyOgg](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/lennyogg/32/159_2.png) [@LennyOgg](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/LennyOgg)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2026, 3:18pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10162/2 "2026-02-16T15:18:20Z")
Welcome back, Rickie :psycat_paw: I know very well how frustrating inZOI can be (and I try to remind myself over and over again it’s still early access, but sometimes it’s just too much :psycat_sad: ), there are things that can be fixed and some sadly can’t - at the moment or ever. So if you like, you can post each of these issues in a separate bug report and we see what we can do to help, players can add their comments and experiences and it gets hopefully forwarded to the devs. I’m sure we at least can resolve the shoe issue, since my Zois can wear any shoes at Cahaya. And for the romance problem we can maybe try to lead you through a trait change with the help of a cheat. ---
**Author:** ![HeinziDerHeld](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/krafton/user_avatar/forum.playinzoi.com/heinziderheld/32/4787_2.png) [@HeinziDerHeld](https://forum.playinzoi.com/u/HeinziDerHeld)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2026, 3:20pm UTC](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10162/3 "2026-02-16T15:20:37Z")
Hey there, welcome back! Glad you’re here again 😀 Have you seen @JoyIsFunner’s reply to your bug report about the roommate bug? > [@Romance with a Room Mate. seems NOT?](https://forum.playinzoi.com/t/topic/10090/3): > > It’s their characteristics and traits, > > I forget which ones line up but I had to restart a new game with both zois traits set a specific way then I got them to romance and Marry. > > **Which this needs to be fixed because anyone can fall in love.** > > **This is stupid because this is the purpose of creating two zois that you want to play and have them realistically romance and eventually get Married .**