No Gay male NPCs spawn in Cahaya despite the update for the LGBTQ thing. I don't even know for sure if they even fixed the bug. UPDATE: POSSIBLE FIX.

Thank you! I found out that the gender preference is correct so it was indeed bugging out somehow. I made a new family member that was LGBTQ in Cahaya and it fixed the bug. All the people who were only into the opposite gender are now into everyone.