Hey guys, is someone stuck with romantic relationship too? Cause my Zoi tries to get a gf for a while since he wants to have a big family. Yeah he can flirt but can’t get into relationships, despite girls like him, everyone refuses him lol. Everything is fine with friendship, my Zoi is an extravert, but he feels lonely without relationship:(
You could go into CAZ and check if he is set as male and attracted to female and the girls he’s interested in are set to female and interested in male
And if both are interested in romantic relationships
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Thank you very much!
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Oh, everything is fine, he’s male indeed, he’s into romantic relationships and he likes women. And i remembered he also finds women who likes men and who likes to date but he has the same problem with dating.. then i dont know what’s going wrong. He has charisma, he’s joking around etc. but he stuck D:
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That’s weird indeed 
Do you maybe use any mods?
How high are their romantic relationship levels? Maybe they need to get on a higher level to unlock more interactions?
What you could try in a test save is, to cheat the relationships on a higher level and see what happens. If it still doesn’t work you can report it as a bug and maybe also send in your save file to let it get checked.
The official cheat guide is → here (where you can also find how to get the Zoi ID)
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How does that excatly look like when they refuse him?
Usually, when the bars are high enough, you can select a relationship, does that not happen in your game?
They can be best friends and flirt but still if he tries to hug or kiss, a girl will refuse (worsening relationship). Idk it seems my zoi is going to be alone:)))
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I thought the problem is when friendly relationship is not enough. I have only two options: you’re choosing to be friends or not to be friends with a character. nothing about romantic relationship. Its absolutely impossible to create a RR and family. Sad
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Can he perform more romantic interactions with the first girl in the list?
To get the romantic bar higher and then he might chose under ‘select a relationship’ a romantic one. Maybe chose not ‘go all in’ interactions but ‘softer ones’, the conversation/question type.
No, she rejected him
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Was he maybe too bold before and she has a negative mood?
When You click on the N above her profile in the list, what does her Zoi card say?
By the way When girls invite him to meet up to find out the status of their relationship, they don’t show up. The first time, one of the girls did come, but in the end, a romantic relationship deterioration icon appeared above her head, just like with all the others. Now, once again, another girl didn’t show up for the meeting. I try to get to know others, regardless of whether there is friendship or not, but they reject him, even though there may be flirting and even mutual sympathy. Romantic relationships are impossible. I feel very, very sorry for him.
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They’re always interested in men and in relationship
Ah I meant on the right side, what do the girls think about their relationship?
Was there maybe anything negative?
The first girl in the list for example, they have a quite high romantic bar, so they must have been able to perform romantic interactions before.
When you click on her Zoi card, what does she think? And maybe there is information about what happened that she rejects him.
Like they became best friends, made selfies, they decided to stay friends and there’s a love end (why??? I dont understand, they did not even start anything she rejected him). Despite this, usually there are only positive things
It’s possible she’s upset because he flirted with the other girls?
Sometimes they also send messages on the phone and when you don’t answer (or answer sth wrong), they end the relationship.
Are the girls also still in town? You said they don’t show up when you plan to meet them, sometimes the game removes NPC’s.
What you could try with a new girl is to perform light romantic conversation interactions and don’t leave her until the bar is high enough to set the relationship to romantic (or cheat it as suggested above)
The thing is, nothing special is happening. Just flirting, that’s all. No one sends nasty texts or anything like that. On the contrary, they might text, suggest going somewhere, or arrange a meeting to sort things out, but as I said, they don’t show up. I don’t know what the problem is. It never gets serious, it just ends with flirting. I don’t know if they are in town or not, I can’t see their status, whether they are in town or not.
And if I stay until the very end (building friendship, trying unsuccessfully to be romantic), Zoe will collapse from exhaustion, hunger, and so on, I’ve already tried it.
I’ve already used a cheat code to have romantic relationship with a random Zoi, and he’s finally content. I don’t think it will be any different in terms of romantic relationships (in terms of if I decide to create new Zois, for example). I have no idea what the deal is with these romantic relationships, but I’m very upset
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Understandable. inZOI is still early access and I hope there will soon be updates to make romantic relationships with NPC’s easier 
Probably in December.
My Zois only date my Zois so I gladly don’t have such problems. But I’ve seen a youtube video a while ago where the creator had similar problems finding someone.
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