Hi and welcome to the forums!
In order for the mods to help properly, it would be helpful if you filled in the bug report form: game version, platform, mods and your hardware specification.Sometimes a screenshot or small video helps too!
I’ve checked in my game and the cemetery in Blissbay does show up in the map, so I believe it must be something gone wrong in your game or save.
For your first issue, try turning off Free Will in the Game Options > Gameplay section, then turn off autonomy for the Zoi by toggling the Autonomy Toggle to OFF in-game 
Note that the Automony Toggle will automatically toggle back to ON under certain circumstances, such as if the game speed goes higher than x5.0, so you’ll have to turn it off again if it does.
Also note that Zois will cancel interactions and “wander around” (or do another random task) if something is disrupting their ability to complete the action, such as another Zoi blocking their way to an item for an extended period of time, insufficient space or chairs required to complete an object or social interaction, or random breaks in the simulation.
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For your second issue, did you accept the Map changes (via a pop-up) when first loading up the save after the October update? That’s the only way you can get the new changes.
Did the pop-up show up for you at all?
Hi! I completely forgot to fill out the form, but i solved the cemetery issue. However for the first one, I’ll have to repost it again and add some details. I will do that later as im not home rn. But thank you for the reply!
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