I am not entirely sure if this counts as a bug, but every couple days, the relationship partner of my Zoi asks, if they are more than friends and that he is confused. Will it only stop once the Zois are married? I went to the meeting multiple times, I chose the reply that says I am also confused but I didn’t choose the last option because I am afraid it might result in a break up.
“I am also confused” ----> +5 romance it gives a relationship no problem. 
The bottom option reduces the relationship by -10.
Messages truly need a rework. I think they are triggered by parameters that don’t take context or social relationships that much into account which leads to a lot of immersion breaking situations or just stuff that context wise makes zero sense.