I discussed child plans with fiance i didnt know it would instantly get married there and then skipping walking down the aisle and got married in bedroom, i would like this changed or what did i do wrong
Hello,
Unfortunately yes, it has been verified that when you discuss child plans with a fiancé, the game may automatically trigger a marriage, skipping the usual ceremony (like walking down the aisle). In some cases, the marriage happens instantly and informally, such as in the bedroom, without any player control.
This behavior is not officially confirmed as a bug, but it’s likely an unintended consequence of how relationship events are scripted.
The June update introduced more flexible family options, including having children outside of marriage but it may have also caused some unexpected auto-marriage triggers.
For now, there’s no way to undo or prevent this automatic marriage unless you reload a previous save. 