Anyway thank you so much for trying to help me, your advices are very helpful and now i know a little bit more about relationships. I hope either they’ll fix it. Thank you 
Very glad to help, even if we couldn’t solve it, at least it was good for something 
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Oh my, how is one supposed to know that?
Now I have to make a chart for all of my existing couples to see if they’re still compatible? 
Thank you so much for posting this!
Thank you so much, i guess its better be without relationship at all than making this mathematics about matching lol
I hope they’ll fix it or I’ll better dump this game and buy Sims..
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The game should at least let us know why Zois refuse our Zois.
This is super frustrating trying for hours or days to find a partner and you never know why they don’t want to be with you.
Yes thank you very much, help us with it, thank you!
Yes!!! I’m so upset with this update on the relationship. They decided to complicate the game with this nonsense, whyyy :c
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Thank you very much, I’m just shocked that I have to do all this instead of calmly building a relationship. Alas, it’s all too difficult for me, I don’t have the strength or desire to arrange all this, especially since girls continue not to come to my meetings. I hope the developers will listen and remove this unbearable horror with relationships .Otherwise, I’ll have to go back to The Sims or wait for Paralives… I am very disappointed.
Yeah, it could also be a bug since they did adjustments to the traits, and inevitably affecting relationships. Best to give Inzoi until December when they fully release the game. Until then, I’ll make do with what they have to offer.
Let me see, I think you’re getting a bit confused about the trait incompatibility issue. I don’t think there are incompatibility traits in relationships between zois. I think trait incompatibility rather refers to the fact that within the traits you can assign to a zoi (you can assign 2 of them) there are traits that are incompatible with each other, and therefore if you assign a certain trait first, when you go to assign the second trait, you won’t be able to assign a trait that’s incompatible with the first one. For example, if you assign your zoi the Independent trait, you then won’t be able to assign it the Emotionally Needy trait because they are incompatible with each other. Which makes sense because otherwise your zoi would have a split personality and would likely cause problems when the game assigns desires and needs to that zoi.
I don’t think ‘incompatible’ here refers to romantic compatibility - I believe it just means these traits can’t be picked at the same time. If you select a particular trait in CAZ, the incompatible traits will be greyed out. (The poster above me is saying much the same thing, but in Spanish.)
As for why romantic interactions are less likely to succeed since the update, I’m unsure. It’s possible that this is a bug - I haven’t noticed it in my own game, but then most of my Zois are already in established relationships.
Oh I misunderstood that too. When I cheated the traits yesterday, I paid special attention to not chose incompatible traits for my couples ^^’
(The video I’ve posted above is from before the update, so there already had been issues.)
I think having different traits might cause issues with certain interactions and conversations (i.e. one Zoi might enjoy that interaction while the other doesn’t), but it shouldn’t affect romantic interactions in general.
Thanks for clarifying this up for every one. I already deleted my replies so as not to confuse anyone else.
@agusya please ignore my comments. I may have confused you too.
I just found a post on reddit where OP and someone in the comments have the same problem
Ah that’s why my Zoi with others writing text messages only lol makes sense. But still no sense to meet up cause im still having problems with romantic relationship lol waiting when the developers will fix it. I hope they will