My game seems to be working alot better now, a few things i did. Maybe it will help someone else too
- Removed all mod files from the game directory - including the mod and modsave (no idea if this did anything but i was advised to do it so i did)
- Removed the all shaders manually from all my GPUs following this post Resolving Crash Issues After the Latest Update
- Verified the files on steam
- cleared the PSO and disabled mods in the game menu (just for good measure, no idea if it did anything since i had never used mods)
- Tried to remove my Canvas downloads but i seem to still have them so that didnt work..
- Created a new Save as file for any sessions i wanted to keep and got rid of all autosaves and old saves
- Checked for any driver updates
Its alot i know and theres a hotfix that got released after i did all this so i dont know what did it but its working and i really appreciate the help! 